Summary:
In
Chronic Progressive, a collection of 151 short poems divided into three parts, Marion Deutsche Cohen, a well spouse, continues her startlingly candid account of caring for her husband Jeff that began in her previous collection,
Epsilon Country (1995, see annotation). Part I of
Chronic Progressive describes Cohen's frustrations during the last of the 16 years that she cared for Jeff at home, as multiple sclerosis left him almost completely dependent on her. Mother of four, a prolific writer, a poet, and a mathematician, Cohen describes unrelenting stress when family services and insurance providers fail her, when she feels she must protect the sanctity of her home as health care aides and agencies treat it like a hospital or nursing home, or when she's exhausted, which is most of the time. "It's a state, a / chronic state, a chronic progressive incurable state," she writes (55).
The middle section, the longest, follows Cohen during the ten years Jeff resides in Inglis House, a Philadelphia care facility. These poems mix reflections on the past with working out the rhythms of life without Jeff in the house, but still unshakably on her mind. In this section, she also writes "The Last Love Poem for Jeff" and anticipates his death in "A New Vow": "I will give you the best deathbed anyone ever had" (108). In Part III, Cohen experiences relief and begins life with a new spouse after Jeff's death. She recalls herself as ". . . the one he began with, the one he'll end with / the one who's been too much in the middle" (162). But she quickly turns to "Wedding Preparations Former Well Spouse Style" and the "Love Poem for Her New Love."
Taken altogether, the poems reveal a profound effort to sustain vitality and remake ways of living-with integrity-at the edge of human endurance. "Yes, how readily we reclaim our territories," Cohen observes near the end of her book (180).
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