Summary:
Davis,
a nurse practitioner, chronicles her daughter’s life, illness and death at age
54 from cancer. The book consists of three sections, with poems unevenly
divided such that of the 30 poems, only one rests in section II. Titled
Windmill, this poem forms a fulcrum between the relationship of mother and
daughter to one of mother and ill daughter. The windmill is a small gift from
her daughter – a reminder of Kansas where the daughter, her husband and
children live, thousands of miles from Davis. The collection begins with her ‘soon-to-be
born daughter’ (page 15) and ends with The Sacrament of Time, dated months
before her daughter’s death from, at this point, a widely metastatic breast
cancer. The final poem holds within it an entire world – the birth of the
daughter, the fraught frantic mother-to-be pleading for help, the birth of a
healthy baby girl, the wonder of the new addition to their family, the travel
with the newborn to home, and a reflection on what poems can and cannot do. “Poems cannot // save us, Amichai said, but all I have are these poems” (page 58).
If
the first section details the many ways unconditional love for a child unfolds,
through wonders of babyhood, delights of childhood, the harsh lessons of adolescence,
and the successful launch, the final section underscores how deep that love
runs. As the cancer illness progressed during the pandemic, issues of
separation became more acute. Davis marks the numbers affected (illness and
death) by coronavirus (SARS-CoV-2, COVID-19) during the pandemic, as her poems
follow her daughter’s cancer. These numbers, along with brief quotations from
her daughter’s scans and reports, lend a contrast to the evocative imagery and
experience of illness in a loved one. Medical mistakes are chronicled as well
(see What a Terrible Mistake).
The
collection is dedicated to Davis’ daughter and her daughter’s children. Even
the title, Daughter, calls to her, as if addressing her daughter directly. The
title also serves to universalize the parenting of a daughter, even as the
particulars of this family are detailed.
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