After Reading 'Mickey in the Night Kitchen' for the Third Time Before Bed

Dove, Rita

Primary Category: Literature / Poetry

Genre: Poem

Annotated by:
Wear, Delese
  • Date of entry: Nov-22-1996

Summary

This poem is a very natural, very private mother-daughter moment that celebrates the female body. A light-spirited let's-name-body-parts moment has emerged on the bed as "My daughter spreads her legs / to find her vagina." What follows is part spontaneous, light-spirited comparison between the daughter's body and her mother's ("She demands / to see mine"), and a reminder that this "is what a stranger cannot touch / without her yelling."

Commentary

There's much going on in this poem: the complicated, biologically determined mother-daughter relationship; part of the genesis of body image; how some families do "sex education"; the vulnerability of the female body that teaches women to move about the world in very different ways from men. This poem is marvelous to use in sequences of mother-daughter relationships across the lifespan, especially when roles are reversed and daughters become caregivers for aging mothers.

Primary Source

Grace Notes

Publisher

W. W. Norton

Place Published

New York

Edition

1989