Summary:
Elizabeth (Liz) Lesser receives a call from her sister
Maggie, telling her that she has had a relapse of lymphoma. Maggie’s best
chance of survival is a bone marrow transplant; of the three other Lesser
sisters, Liz is Maggie’s perfect match. In an effort to bolster the stem cells’
chance to be successfully grown, harvested, and transplanted, Maggie and Liz
embark on a process to do a “soul marrow transplant;” with the help of a
therapist and through many difficult conversations, the sisters resolve sibling
rivalries, explore their family history, and forgive each other for old
assumptions and judgments. Through the journey they learn to live with
vulnerability and authenticity, and as the poet Rumi writes, meet each other in
the field “beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing.”
Eventually, Maggie’s body begins to succumb to the cancer,
and the entire family prepares for her inevitable death. Maggie, an artist who
works with dried and pressed botanicals, strives to complete a formidable
exhibition entitled “Gone to Seed,” an exploration of life and mortality. Liz
seeks forgiveness and reconciliation with their other two sisters. Finally,
Maggie and her family wrestle with the decision to end standard treatment, begin
palliative care, and consider physician aid in dying.
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