Losing Thomas & Ella: A Father's Story
Secondary Category: Literature /
Genre: Graphic Memoir
- DiLeonardo, Olivia
- Date of entry: Aug-23-2020
Dr. Weaver-Hightower wrote, illustrated, and published this powerful graphic work in the Journal of Medical Humanities. The comic itself is presented in a traditional paneled format, with a few exceptions, and rendered in a moody ink wash in black, white, and various shades of darker and lighter greys. The story is told in the authentic, sometimes faltering voice, of the father of Thomas and Ella, a pair of twin infants who died at 22 and 24 weeks into pregnancy. Beginning with their harrowing trip to the hospital, the comic describes the father and mother’s loss of Ella, shortly after she was born prematurely; their subsequent wait for Thomas to reach the “viable” age of 24 weeks; his stillbirth; and the couple’s sudden discharge from the hospital, going home with “empty arms”. The story then transitions into “The Long After”, including the funeral and the phases of the parents’ grieving process. The father describes his grief, frustrations, the couple’s differing ways of coping, and his ambivalence and anger toward religion as a source of comfort or deeper understanding. On the last page, he recounts their hopes and fears as they enter into their second pregnancy, concluding with panels of the father wrestling with how to understand and process this loss. The final panel is an image of the father in profile, expressionless, saying nothing, a fitting conclusion to a story for which words seem to fail.
With this piece, the author introduces us to the genre of the “research comic”. The comic is followed by a methodological appendix, which explains the author’s process for choosing, capturing, and relating this history in words and illustrations, as well as his rationale for selecting a comic or graphic memoir format for the piece. The author also elaborates upon the concept of the comic as a form of “rigorous, informative research” (226). The appendix is very interesting and will satisfy the curiosity of readers asking the questions, “How did he do this?”, or “Why is this story a comic?”, but the piece stands on its own without the appendix, as well.
This graphic memoir also appears in Journal of Medical Humanities 2017:38(215-230).
Penn State University Press
University Park, PA